His Point of View

Alright, so you made it this far…so now it time for the controversy to begin.  I will jump right in and offer the thought that perhaps no creatures on this planet we call Earth are meant to be monogamous.  Apparently there is no evidence to show that there is a single species of animal known where there is no infidelity.   Since we humans are animals we are also included in the list of creatures which are not completely monogamous.

OK, now that I said it and you are still reading, let’s go a little deeper into this idea.  We all realize that it is difficult to find a person we are compatible with.  Once you have found a seemingly compatible person it is yet even more difficult to make a relationship work.  Perhaps the way we typically structure our relationships is against nature’s design.  Recent studies have shown that approximately 60% of men and 55% of women have admitted to cheating on a spouse (continue reading…)

Ok so maybe this post is not really about why men cheat per se, but it does explain how some relationships are set up for failure from square one. Men are not as dumb or stupid and many women may think, often we recognize what is being done and we just respond in a manner that women do not expect, sometimes because we know what you all are up to, and at other times because we just think about things differently.  The very things that some women do in order to find out if they have a man worth keeping, or to test a man’s fortitude, are the same things that tell us that this particular woman is playing games, and we shouldn’t take her too seriously.  Now on to the good stuff… enjoy!

Sex is not as important to men as it is to women.   I will repeat that…Sex is not as important to men as it is to women. (continue reading…)

Today I was asked why one woman is not enough for most men.  I quickly though of about 7 reasons, and I quickly decided that it was a topic that deserved more attention.  Its not that I have some earth shattering ideas about this subject, but when I say how I feel many people react as if they have never heard such a point of view before…so here it is.  Much of what I say applies to infidelity in general, not just to men who cheat.

Of course many people quickly write cheaters off as people with little self control, or people who are greedy, or careless, etc.  It is very easy to lump all cheaters into one big pile of people who can’t keep their body parts under control.  But its more than that, (continue reading…)