His Point of View

We all know that it takes two… and THEY always say three’s a crowd….

We also know that most (read: all) men have a fantasy of having a threesome with two lovely ladies.  Usually when men talk about this topic with their lady, she responds with the question “well, what if I want to be with two men at the same time???”

If a woman were to ask me that question I would say, it takes a certain type of woman to desire a threesome with her man plus another man, while being a contender for long term relationship status.  That certain type of woman is rare.  Most women who are at the point in life where they want to settle down with a man are not going to have a desire to seriously consider having sex with another man unless her feelings for her man are fading, or she is otherwise attracted to that other man on an emotional level.  I argue that if a woman in a relationship is willing to have sex with another man there are likely problems brewing in that relationship… unless that woman is of the swinging type & I find it hard (continue reading…)